Probate disputes can tear families apart, leading to lasting drama between siblings, parents, children and other family members. However, these disputes do not always have to be so contentious, and there are a number of steps that people can take to reduce the impact of such a situation. After someone you love passes away, you may be struggling with a lot of different emotions, including anger, anxiety and depression. Moreover, every family is in a different position when it comes to their finances and their relationships with other family members, so it is critical to examine this issue from an individualized angle. 

For starters, if you want to make a probate dispute easier it is critical to do your best to avoid harsh language, threats and other behaviors that can lead to additional hostility. Some people may be upset that they did not receive certain assets and there can be a lot of confusion when it comes to distributing an estate. Sometimes, executors may be unaware of key details and actions they make that are interpreted as hostile may have been accidental. If you are in charge of your loved one’s estate plan, you should also try to be understanding during this time and make sure that you move through the probate process carefully. 

Communication can be very helpful in this regard, and everyone should have a solid understanding of their legal rights. If you suspect that you have not been treated fairly with regard to any estate-related issue, whether you are falsely accused of breaching your fiduciary duties or you did not receive assets that should have been given to you, try to be firm and understanding.